I’m writing this from sunny Brisbane in Australia. I’m so delighted to be with family and friends, especially that I didn’t see them for five years. Being a family addict and social connoisseur, every day is spent dining together, playing board games and sports, visiting places or simply lazing around talking to each other. Giving and receiving are also a habit. Fortunately, I received only useful presents last Christmas. However, even if I had unwanted gifts, I would have turned these into needed and appreciated possessions. In fact, even when I don’t like my gift, I never return it. Of course you can do this if there’s a receipt (but never ask for it) and exchange it for something that you really like.
In the past, I did regift expensive wine and champagne bottles (I don’t drink alcohol). Sometimes, I had presents that stayed in my wardrobe for a year or so waiting for the right person and occasion. Since I have a fairly good memory when it comes to people and their kindness, I always remember who has given me what. However, one day when my memory starts to dwindle, I will record my unwanted presents so that I won’t offer these embarrassingly to the original givers.
As well, I am good at reusing presents, e.g. my current make up porcelain holder was actually given to me as a jewellery box.
Barbara Young, one of my role models and former work supervisors, donates unwanted gifts to charities (e.g. Save the Children Fund) and those less fortunate. About 8 years ago, I helped her get rid of unused belongings in a garage sale.
Perhaps one day I will organise a swapping party for unused/unwanted Christmas (or birthday) presents.
The year 2015 was enlightening and productive for me, however, global events (several of which I had mentioned in my previous articles) saddened me. Currently, what worries me more is that our world continues to be riddled with mutual distrust and division, conflicts and terrorism. What can we do about these – antidotes and answers?
I hope that in 2016 we will witness less destruction of lives and properties (and other crimes), unemployment/underemployment, flooding of refugees, extreme weather conditions/climate change, failure in national and global governances, political and economic instability, and family breakdowns.
I wish you and your loved ones peace, security, safety, good health and happiness throughout 2016.